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🌹 In the Pain of Beauty — ؁؊ ØŖŲ„Ų… Ø§Ų„ØŦŲ…Ø§Ų„ ŲŠØŗŲƒŲ† Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ŲŠØ¨Part 3 — Ego, Destiny, and the SoulØ§Ų„ØŦØ˛ØĄ Ø§Ų„ØĢØ§Ų„ØĢ — Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§، Ø§Ų„Ų‚Ø¯Øą، ŲˆØ§Ų„ØąŲˆØ­đŸŒŒ Love and the EgoØ§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ŲˆØ§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§One of the deepest struggles in love is the struggle with the ego.ØŖØšŲ…Ų‚ ØĩØąØ§Øš ؁؊ Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ Ų‡Ųˆ Ø§Ų„ØĩØąØ§Øš Ų…Øš Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§.The ego seeks control, certainty, and protection.Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§ ØĒØŗØšŲ‰ ØĨŲ„Ų‰ Ø§Ų„ØŗŲŠØˇØąØŠ ŲˆØ§Ų„ŲŠŲ‚ŲŠŲ† ŲˆØ§Ų„Ø­Ų…Ø§ŲŠØŠ.Love asks for surrender, trust, and openness.Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ŲŠØˇŲ„Ø¨ Ø§Ų„Ø§ØŗØĒØŗŲ„Ø§Ų… ŲˆØ§Ų„ØĢŲ‚ØŠ ŲˆØ§Ų„Ø§Ų†ŲØĒاح.When we truly love, the ego feels threatened.

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🌹 In the Pain of Beauty — ؁؊ ØŖŲ„Ų… Ø§Ų„ØŦŲ…Ø§Ų„ ŲŠØŗŲƒŲ† Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ŲŠØ¨ Part 3 — Ego, Destiny, and the Soul Ø§Ų„ØŦØ˛ØĄ Ø§Ų„ØĢØ§Ų„ØĢ — Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§، Ø§Ų„Ų‚Ø¯Øą، ŲˆØ§Ų„ØąŲˆØ­ 🌌 Love and the Ego Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ŲˆØ§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§ One of the deepest struggles in love is the struggle with the ego. ØŖØšŲ…Ų‚ ØĩØąØ§Øš ؁؊ Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ Ų‡Ųˆ Ø§Ų„ØĩØąØ§Øš Ų…Øš Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§. The ego seeks control, certainty, and protection. Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§ ØĒØŗØšŲ‰ ØĨŲ„Ų‰ Ø§Ų„ØŗŲŠØˇØąØŠ ŲˆØ§Ų„ŲŠŲ‚ŲŠŲ† ŲˆØ§Ų„Ø­Ų…Ø§ŲŠØŠ. Love asks for surrender, trust, and openness. Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ŲŠØˇŲ„Ø¨ Ø§Ų„Ø§ØŗØĒØŗŲ„Ø§Ų… ŲˆØ§Ų„ØĢŲ‚ØŠ ŲˆØ§Ų„Ø§Ų†ŲØĒاح. When we truly love, the ego feels threatened. ØšŲ†Ø¯Ų…Ø§ Ų†Ø­Ø¨ بØĩØ¯Ų‚، ØĒØ´ØšØą Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§ Ø¨Ø§Ų„ØĒŲ‡Ø¯ŲŠØ¯. Because love requires us to admit: Ų„ØŖŲ† Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ؊ØĒØˇŲ„Ø¨ Ų…Ų†Ø§ ØŖŲ† Ų†ØšØĒØąŲ: “I cannot control everything.” «Ų„ا ØŖØŗØĒØˇŲŠØš Ø§Ų„ØĒØ­ŲƒŲ… ؁؊ ŲƒŲ„ Ø´ŲŠØĄ». “I may be hurt.” «Ų‚د ØŖُØĩاب Ø¨Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ„Ų…». “I need someone.” «ØŖŲ†Ø§ بحاØŦØŠ ØĨŲ„Ų‰ Ø´ØŽØĩ». The ego resists vulnerability. Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§ ØĒŲ‚Ø§ŲˆŲ… Ø§Ų„ØļØšŲ. But without softening the ego, love cannot deepen. Ų„ŲƒŲ† Ų…Ų† Ø¯ŲˆŲ† ØĒŲ„ŲŠŲŠŲ† Ø§Ų„ØŖŲ†Ø§، Ų„Ø§ ŲŠŲ…ŲƒŲ† Ų„Ų„Ø­Ø¨ ØŖŲ† ؊ØĒØšŲ…Ų‚. True love humbles us. Ø§Ų„Ø­Ø¨ Ø§Ų„Ø­Ų‚ŲŠŲ‚ŲŠ ؊ØŦØšŲ„Ų†Ø§ Ų…ØĒŲˆØ§ØļØšŲŠŲ†. It teaches emotional courage. ŲˆŲŠØšŲ„Ų…Ų†Ø§ Ø§Ų„Ø´ØŦاؚ؊ Ø§Ų„ØšØ§ØˇŲŲŠØŠ. đŸ”Ĩ Love and ...

🌹 In the Pain of Beauty — ŲžÛŒØąِ Ø­ØŗŲ† Ų…ÛŒÚē ÛŒØ§ØąPart 3 — Ego, Destiny, and the SoulØ­Øĩہ ØŗŲˆŲ… — Ø§Ų†Ø§، ØĒŲ‚Ø¯ÛŒØą Ø§ŲˆØą ØąŲˆØ­đŸŒŒ Love and the EgoŲ…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ Ø§ŲˆØą Ø§Ų†Ø§One of the greatest hidden struggles in love is the struggle with the ego.Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ÚŠÛ’ Ø§Ų†Ø¯Øą ØŗØ¨ ØŗÛ’ بڑا ŲžŲˆØ´ÛŒØ¯Û Ų…ØšØąÚŠÛ Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠÛ’ ØŗØ§ØĒÚž ÛŲˆØĒا ہے۔The ego wants control, certainty, and protection.Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠŲ†ŲšØąŲˆŲ„، ÛŒŲ‚ÛŒŲ† Ø§ŲˆØą ØĒØ­ŲØ¸ چاہØĒی ہے۔Love asks for surrender, trust, and openness.Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ØŗŲžØąØ¯Ú¯ÛŒ، اؚØĒŲ…Ø§Ø¯ Ø§ŲˆØą ڊشادگی Ų…Ø§Ų†Ú¯ØĒی ہے۔When we truly love, the ego feels threatened.

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🌹 In the Pain of Beauty — ŲžÛŒØąِ Ø­ØŗŲ† Ų…ÛŒÚē ÛŒØ§Øą Part 3 — Ego, Destiny, and the Soul Ø­Øĩہ ØŗŲˆŲ… — Ø§Ų†Ø§، ØĒŲ‚Ø¯ÛŒØą Ø§ŲˆØą ØąŲˆØ­ 🌌 Love and the Ego Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ Ø§ŲˆØą Ø§Ų†Ø§ One of the greatest hidden struggles in love is the struggle with the ego. Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ÚŠÛ’ Ø§Ų†Ø¯Øą ØŗØ¨ ØŗÛ’ بڑا ŲžŲˆØ´ÛŒØ¯Û Ų…ØšØąÚŠÛ Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠÛ’ ØŗØ§ØĒÚž ÛŲˆØĒا ہے۔ The ego wants control, certainty, and protection. Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠŲ†ŲšØąŲˆŲ„، ÛŒŲ‚ÛŒŲ† Ø§ŲˆØą ØĒØ­ŲØ¸ چاہØĒی ہے۔ Love asks for surrender, trust, and openness. Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ØŗŲžØąØ¯Ú¯ÛŒ، اؚØĒŲ…Ø§Ø¯ Ø§ŲˆØą ڊشادگی Ų…Ø§Ų†Ú¯ØĒی ہے۔ When we truly love, the ego feels threatened. ØŦب ÛŲ… ØŗÚ†ÛŒ Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ÚŠØąØĒے ہیÚē ØĒ؈ Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠŲˆ ØŽØˇØąÛ Ų…Ø­ØŗŲˆØŗ ÛŲˆØĒا ہے۔ Because love means saying: ÚŠÛŒŲˆŲ†ÚŠÛ Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ڊا Ų…ØˇŲ„Ø¨ ہے یہ ÚŠÛŲ†Ø§: “I may be hurt.” “Ų…ØŦÚžÛ’ Ú†ŲˆŲš Ų„Ú¯ ØŗÚŠØĒی ہے۔” “I cannot control everything.” “Ų…ÛŒÚē ÛØą Ú†ÛŒØ˛ ÚŠŲˆ ÚŠŲ†ŲšØąŲˆŲ„ Ų†ÛÛŒÚē ÚŠØą ØŗÚŠØĒا۔” “I need someone.” “Ų…ØŦÚžÛ’ ÚŠØŗÛŒ ÚŠÛŒ ØļØąŲˆØąØĒ ہے۔” The ego resists vulnerability. Ø§Ų†Ø§ ÚŠŲ…Ø˛ŲˆØąÛŒ Ų‚Ø¨ŲˆŲ„ Ų†ÛÛŒÚē ÚŠØąØĒی۔ But without softening the ego, love cannot deepen. Ų…Ú¯Øą Ø§Ų†Ø§ Ų†ØąŲ… ÛŲˆØĻے بØēÛŒØą Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ Ú¯ÛØąÛŒ Ų†ÛÛŒÚē ÛŲˆ ØŗÚŠØĒی۔ True love humbles us. ØŗÚ†ÛŒ Ų…Ø­Ø¨ØĒ ÛŲ…ÛŒÚē ØšØ§ØŦØ˛ Ø¨Ų†Ø§ØĒی ہے۔ It teaches emotional cour...