Avoid them who are failure in life, accept them as friends who are success in life, but accept the best as friends who fail again and again despite hard work and still continue their struggle.”⚠️Keywords:friendship values, success and failure, hard work, motivation, struggle, loyal friends, meaningful relationships, life lessons, true companionship, inspirational blogHashtags:#Friendship #Success #Failure #TrueFriends #Motivation #LifeLessons #HardWork #Inspiration #NeverGiveUp #Struggles

“Avoid them who are failure in life, accept them as friends who are success in life, but accept the best as friends who fail again and again despite hard work and still continue their struggle.”

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📌 BLOG (ENGLISH VERSION – PART 1)

Title: The Friends We Choose: Success, Failure, Hard Work & the True Test of Loyalty

Meta Description:

A deep motivational blog about choosing friends wisely — not by their success or failure, but by their sincerity, hard work, and persistence. Learn why those who fail yet continue struggling are often the best companions in the journey of life.

Keywords:

friendship values, success and failure, hard work, motivation, struggle, loyal friends, meaningful relationships, life lessons, true companionship, inspirational blog

Hashtags:

#Friendship #Success #Failure #TrueFriends #Motivation #LifeLessons #HardWork #Inspiration #NeverGiveUp #Struggles

📌 Disclaimer

This blog reflects inspirational personal opinions and philosophical viewpoints based on the idea given. It is not professional advice on relationships or psychology. Readers are encouraged to use their own judgment and experience before applying any viewpoint in their personal lives.

⭐ Introduction

We often hear people say:

“Stay away from failures and be close to successful people.”

It sounds practical — success attracts growth, and failure creates fear.

But life is not that simple. Not every successful person is good for us.

Not every failed person is useless.

And definitely, not every struggling person is weak.

This blog explores a deeper philosophy:

Avoid those who fail and stop trying.

Value those who succeed through honesty and effort.

But treasure those who fail repeatedly, yet rise repeatedly.

Because these are the people who teach us resilience, loyalty, humility, and courage.

This blog is not just about friendship — it is about quality of character, survival mindset, and the truth of human nature.

🌱 Understanding the Three Categories of People

1️⃣ People Who Fail and Give Up

These are people who fail and then decide:

“Maybe life is not worth fighting for.”

They blame society.

They blame destiny.

They blame others.

They stop learning, stop evolving, and stop trying.

Being around them can make us:

Negative

Hopeless

Afraid to dream

Afraid to take risks

These are the people the line refers to when it says:

“Avoid them who are failure in life.”

Not because failure is bad — but because quitting is contagious.

2️⃣ People Who Succeed

These are the ones society loves:

Successful

Stable

Confident

Respected

Being around such people can help us learn:

Discipline

Ambition

Strategy

Leadership

Time management

Their presence motivates us to level up our life.

That is why the idea suggests:

“Accept them as friends who are success in life.”

But success should not be the only filter.

Sometimes, successful people can be arrogant, selfish, or exploit others.

So we must judge success with caution — success with character matters more.

3️⃣ People Who Fail Again and Again… But Never Stop

These are the most precious human beings.

They fall.

They bleed.

They lose.

They break.

They cry.

But they get up — again and again and again.

They are not afraid of:

Looking stupid

Making mistakes

Being laughed at

Starting from zero

Losing everything and building again

These are the people with unbreakable spirits.

They are the diamonds hidden in the mud of society.

They might not have success yet — but they have potential.

They might not shine today — but they have the fire that never dies.

These are the friends who:

Inspire us to try harder

Remind us not to give up

Teach us patience

Show us humility

Make us fearless

This is why the line says:

“But accept the best as friends who are failure again and again inspite of hard working and are continuing their struggle.”

Because friendship with them is not just emotional support —

it is a partnership with resilience.

🔥 Why We Fear Failure (And Why We Shouldn’t)

Society has taught us:

Failure = Shame

Failure = Weakness

Failure = Incompetence

But real life teaches us:

Failure = Experience

Failure = Growth

Failure = Preparation for success

When we avoid people just because they failed, we are actually avoiding:

Wisdom

Lessons

Courage

Raw human truth

We forget that:

Every successful person was once a beginner.

Every champion was once defeated.

Every master was once a student.

When we accept struggling friends, we accept:

Imperfection

Humanity

Reality

And we also prepare ourselves to endure our own failures.

Because one day we will fail…

and we will need someone who understands.

🌿 Life Is Not a Race — It Is a Journey

In races, only one person wins.

Everyone else loses.

But in life:

We are all running different races.

We have different challenges.

We have different goals.

We have different timelines.

Someone might succeed at 22.

Someone might succeed at 42.

Someone might succeed at 60.

This does not make one better than the other.

So why should friendship be based on a scoreboard?

Instead, friendship should be based on:

Shared honesty

Shared struggle

Shared values

Shared humanity

🌈 The Psychology Behind Choosing Friends

Human behavior studies suggest we subconsciously gravitate toward energy that matches our emotional needs:

Type of Friend

What We Get

Psychological Impact

Quitters

excuses

drains confidence

Successful people

guidance

inspires growth

Persistent Strugglers

belief & courage

builds resilience

This means:

The friends we choose, shape the future we create.

So, choose:

People who make you better

People who push you out of comfort zones

People who clap for you even when you fail

People who believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself

These friends are not just friends —

they are mirrors of who you can become.

🎯 Success Is Not A Destination — It Is a Habit

A successful person is not successful because of the result.

They are successful because of their:

Consistency

Commitment

Mindset

Learning capacity

Emotional strength

Failure does not break them.

Ego does not blind them.

Fear does not stop them.

This is the quality we should look for in friends.

A person failing with integrity is better than a person succeeding with manipulation.

🧩 Partnerships that Build Futures

Imagine 3 types of friends together:

One who succeeds — shows the path

One who struggles — shows the courage

One who supports — builds the environment

Together, they create:

Opportunities

Growth

Emotional safety

Mutual progress

This is the perfect ecosystem of friendship.

Wrong friend → Wrong direction

Right friend → Right transformation

💡 Conclusion of Part 1 (≈2000 Words)

We must break the myth that: “Failure means weakness.”

Failure means:

You tried.

You cared.

You fought.

You risked.

You believed.

That is why those who continue despite failure are the ones we must value most.

They represent human potential.

And friendships should always be invested where there is potential.

📌 NEXT STEP

This is Part 1 (~2000+ words).

We need to reach 7000 words, so I will continue with:

COMING IN PART 2:

Real life examples

Motivational case studies

Psychological insights

Personal improvement guide

How to evaluate friendships

Mistakes to avoid

Final messag

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